On the off chance that this is a message directed at the guy in the picture, ignore the paragraphs below.
Here’s another view:
Marriage is a choice, agreed upon by both parties. She doesn’t have to take his name, neither do the children. Everybody leaves their family, her leaving her family isn’t anything abnormal. Pregnancy and child bearing is a choice by both parents and should not be done because one person party decides to. I can’t say anything about the child birth pains and destroyed bodies, except for: that’s what you signed up for (for lack of a better expression or phrase) when you both decides to have a baby. Finally, the reason everything she does benefits you is because she loves you enough to do those things for you, just like that husband would if he loved her.
The point I hope I’m making here is that this here portrays an archaic version of marriage in which men were the dominant partner. But in the present, women have much more social freedom and can decide the majority of these things for themselves. Furthermore, marriage is not a one way street. Marriage is, or should be, the joining of to people whom love eachother and would do anything to make eachothers lives as enjoyable as they can. And yes, it may not be easy to be a woman, but one of the things a man should do, imo, is make being a woman as easy as possible for his wife (again not sure how to formulate this last sentence properly, it should basically say something along the lines of being there and supporting her).
That’s a fact, Jack.